There are three parts to every relationship.LISTEN NOW
1. What you think others think about you
2. What you think about them
3. What you think about yourself.
Guess where most our time is spent trying to change or figure out? Part 1. But we need to be spending our focus on the other two parts.....what you think about them and what you think about yourself. Those are the parts you have control over. "What someone else thinks of me is none of my business." Meaningful relationships with our adult children are based on love; loving that you both have opinions; loving them exactly as they are; loving yourself exactly as you are.