We're the best of friends. We just haven't met yet.

Hello, I'm Bonnie. I am a Life Coach. We would have been the best of friends if we had met already. Now, we're going to become just that.

I am a mother of 5 grown up kids. I am a member to the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. Like you, I sometimes feel unimportant, unappreciated, and distant in my relationship with my adult children. But because I was taught what the real cause of any problem is, I am able feel love, peace, acceptance, and self respect. I now have the tools to maximize my connection with my adult children.

I know how painful it can feel watching your adult children make some unexpected, undesirable choices. I know what it feels like to feel unimportant in their lives or unappreciated or forgotten or slighted.

In 2014, I was trained by Brooke Castillo at The Life Coach School. She taught me the source of any painful feeling I would have. She taught me it wasn't the circumstances that were causing me to feel miserable. It was my thoughts about the circumstance that caused my feelings.

The techniques I learned, that taught me how to solve any problem, are the foundation of my coaching program. This technique is called The Model.

The tools I teach my clients are the same ones that help me enjoy a well-lived life.

It is my privilege and honor everyday to help women obtain the results they are so wanting in their relationships with their adult children.

I believe it is my mission in life to offer the tools to as many mothers as possible to know how to remove the pain in their relationship with an adult child.

Together we can achieve results that strengthen families and cause us to live a life we never imagined was possible.

I am grateful that I l had the opportunity to learn these tools.

And I can help you learn them too.❣️

Photo of Bonnie Lyman with 5 girls who she taught while on a LDS mission

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Testimonials

"In just a short time in working with Bonnie, I found myself going to a place of "love" instead of judgement when I found myself in a situation where I could have felt slighted, insignificant, skipped over, ignored, put down or devalued. I have learned new steps in not taking things so personally and being able to develop new thought patterns. I feel so much more like myself! And I experience so much less contention in my heart and mind. Thank you, Bonnie, for teaching me that love always wins."

SUE

"In just a short time she was able to teach me the CTFAR Model which I have tried to implement in my thinking and reactions to situations. It is something new for me, so I have to work to discard old thinking that creeps in. I've had two thoughts stick with me: I have NO control over anyone but ME and I cannot control how anyone else thinks or feels! I would recommend Bonnie as a Life Coach to any woman who thinks she needs to make some changes in her self-thoughts and/or relationships."

ELAINE

"I enjoyed my coaching hour each week with Bonnie. My 4 sessions built upon each other, teaching me that it was my thoughts that were causing all my painful feelings; not what other people did or said. Learning the CTFAR Model was a game changer. Bonnie showed me how to apply the Model daily and helped me implement it when I couldn't figure out how to change my thoughts. I have a happier relationship with my parents and my adult children because of the coaching sessions I had with Bonnie."

KAELENE

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